In Spain, a renewed emphasis is being placed on the importance of virtues like self-control and courtesy as societal discord rises. The core idea centers on the belief that these qualities are just as vital to a functioning society as passionately defending one’s beliefs. The text highlights that maintaining respectful interactions, even – and especially – when disagreements are strong, is crucial. Listening to opposing viewpoints is presented as a key component of civic responsibility alongside conviction. This perspective suggests a need for greater civility in public discourse within Spain. Ultimately, the piece frames elegance – encompassing these virtues – not as superficial refinement, but as a foundational strength for navigating challenging times in Spain.