The article discusses “intensive parenting,” a growing trend characterized by heightened expectations and demands on parents regarding time, finances, and dedication to their children’s upbringing. Francisca Figueroa explores how this approach to parenthood, extending from pre-birth preparation through education and development, is impacting family decisions. While not presented as the sole cause, the author suggests intensive parenting influences how individuals assess the feasibility of having children. This stems from the perception that every opportunity to support a child’s growth translates into an obligation. The increasing costs associated with raising children, combined with these rigorous standards, contribute to a complex evaluation process for prospective parents. The piece ultimately highlights a potential factor contributing to declining birth rates.